Me ♥

Raff Alysha
First Breathe...21st July 1984
EveryOne can see who I appear to be, but only a few know the real me. You can only see what I chose to show, but there is so much behind this smile you just don't know.

♥ Cravings ♥

Volumized Locks
Lipo-Suctioned toned Body
In a simple word, I need a thorough makeover
Any kind souls out there?? :)

Cherish & Treasure ♥

Memories
Kisses
HappiNess
Love
Hugs
Cuddles
blah blah blah ...

ArchEnemy ♥

Backbiter
bitches
Not forgetting, MY HATER. Not. I still lavvya. ;)

My Heartfelt Words ♥

The only people U need in Ur life are the ones that prove they need you in theirs.

There's mistakes I've made; Chances I've thrown away; Some roads I should've never taken.
There's been signs I didn't see; But it doesn't matter.
When life gets harder it makes me that much stronger; Some pages turned, Some bridges burned
But all lesson learned!

Idolized ♥

Tyra Bank
Gisele Bundchen

Heart

Sista Love
Baby Sista

Precious Memories ♥

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♥ Sunday, May 22, 2011
Yo!!!

Just a couple of Sunday back (15/05/11) my partner & I went for a pampering session.

Another plus point we love in common. [Well, just fyi readers, we are e total opposite of each other! U wldn't believe it if I were to list each & every one down. So, why do we end up together, one will ask. Opposite attracts mah! ;p] 

Here is one o them. The *very* important attribute that is needed before I will even consider paying or even enter the spa : The atmosphere & environment. In another simpler term, it has to look "appetizing" to my standard. My Mister Y will never understand why. You see, whenever we are in places like say for instance, Bangkok or Batam, yes, there are a hell lot of massage palour, BUT not the kind of place I envision myself to relax in. Got what I mean. Now, I am not being difficult or "mengada-ngada", but seriously, comfort has to be considered apart from also the dollars and cents. Agree?

So, this time, we went to Wen Luxe Spa.

I beg to differ if anyone were to retort we spend unnecessarily. All this, Thanks to e local best deals online website. (I will share w U people, the website in my very next entry. I promise. :)) With these kinda best deals in town, anyone can go to a reputable spa. Unlike overseas, the prices here are relatively on a much higher side, I know. Normally, on average for the past year, we visit local spas only once a year. But w these kinda deals, we can afford to go every single month. I am serious.

Let me share with you the deal I bought way back in January. This was supposed to be our Valentine's Day celebration but the spa was always fully booked and for some reasons I kept having to change our appointment date due to some unforeseen circumstances. To be honest, I was tempted to postpone it again but I can't because of the expiry date! FYI, the response for this deal was too good that the expiry has been extended from the 19th of April to 30th April and again further extension, up till end of 30th May. ;)

Our "In e Mood for Love" package cost us $88 for a couple, instead of the original price of $540.00. Which means it was 83% off its normal price. Too good a deal, right. However, after purchasing this deal, I kinda regret it, because a couple o days later, there are other deals from other spas waayy cheaper. Some even as low as eighteen freaking bucks!!! But oh well, the better. I can have all the time in the world to try the rest. 

So under this package, one can have a choice of either one hour of either the Collagen Radiance Face Spa or Swedish Aromatherapy Massage. This is followed by a detoxifying Ear Candling of 20 minutes! I am eager, because, I have never done this before! According to medical practice, this is a natural relaxing remedy for many ailments, including sinus pressure, migraines, chronic earaches, tinnitus (ringing in your ears) and even stress! Not only that, we were given some refreshments and chocolate truffles! Mad Love!

All this is done in the privacy of their Grand Couple Suite, with en-suite shower facilities. It is totally PRIVATE!  =D

Without further ado, allow me to present you some photos :




Wen Luxe Spa is located at the heart of Outram Park. Surrounded by the Nineteen twenties shophouses.














And... It is just a walking distance from the HDB-going-to-turn Condo 




Pinnacle @ Duxton. 


Anyone wanna trade w our brand new Punggol Spring? =p





So, we have reached No 6 Bukit Pasoh Road.


Why was I clad in my kebaya?


Appointment was at 10 am in the morning. :s


After which, we have got 3 invitations. 




We were the very first customer for e day.
The spa has been voted by several Magazine namely Singapore Women's Week, Travel & Leisure & several others.




The stairways leading to their rooms.


The waiting area.


Our Couple Suite.



Loving the tiffy & co colours. 



*Pose Pose*



The husband's all ready for his masage. He snores during the treatment which only means the massage was good & comforting. (",)




Followed by the ear candling! Loves the warm sensation. <3 <3 <3



Wanna see the aftermath?


It's GROSS!




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Dun say I don't warn, hor!


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Our ear waste. =p


I know! EWWWW right? LOL!



Two satisfied *ear-shifree* customers.


Till our next Spa experience

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Since I am doing a post on Spa, just recalled & (decide to compile) earlier in Feb, we went to Lifespa. The one located @ Carlton Hotel. 




This time, thanks to Standard Chartered. We get to enjoy a 1-for-1 treatment at just $45 nett. 





Tea was being served. 


Their service, was better compared to Wen Luxe.


And in terms of location & ambience, of course Life Spa has a higher advantage as well.  Strategically located in the heart of Bugis area. Being part of the Carlton hotel, they are expected to deliver top notch service and they delivered it well. Ambience was perfectlly luxurious & cosy. It fits my bill.




At the end of the treatment, they did try to sell us their packages. One thing I like about them is that they did not try to hardsell their products. The staffs allow you to think about it first and despite the rejection, they still smile & gave us the very same treatment still, unlike some other spas.


Verdict : One should try their treatment when they are having any promos. If you are coming along with your partner, do ensure that you highlight to them so that they can reserve a couple room for you or else, you will end up doing the treatment in separate room, like us. Not that I mind, since my partner snores. *winks*


Love ME!
*Raff*

`you'll never fade... won't you? U know U WANT me...
Last moment...
8:09 PM


♥ Monday, May 9, 2011
iHave gone missing for more than a month.
iHave not even take a peek at my own blog, let alone my blogger site.
iHave zero intention of updating this space of mine.

Not until yesterday.

To tell you the truth, I was at one of my lowest peak in my life on the 13th March 2011. A date I will remember till my last breathe. I wish I can let everything out here. Share it with you, but I can't. [I did confide on Twitter, my ranting space, how very upset I was, tho. :(]

Everyone has problems.Some people are just better at hiding them than others. I happened to be one of those people. 

There's just some things in life which is best to keep mum; 
I learned never to tell your problems to anyone. 20% do not care and the remaining 80% are glad you have them.

As I grow up... I began to realize it becomes less important to have more friends & more important to have REAL ones. I can either choose to mourn over it silently or open my big mouth, telling the entire universe. However, I can't bring myself to pour out my heartaches & miseries and having the courage to deal with strangers/acquantainces/haters sneering & feeling extremely happy for me when I am at my most vulnerable. Neither do I want any sympathy. 

So, what I did?
I confide in a friend. Just ONE friend. Someone whom I trust.Someone who truly understands. [To the person I shared my tears with, from the bottom of my broken heart, thank U very much for being there, my friend! :')] 
I made a decision, picked myself up & moved on. 
I am feeling way better than I was nearly 2 months back, thanks! No, I am not going in depth of the issue. Neither will I give U any hints. It's up to individual to analyze & come up with ur own imaginary storyline. I have already put the past behind me. It was deal doned and there's nothing I can do to undo it. What did  happened was never my fault, and I have learned to let go & come to terms with it. It was never easy but I did it. I am proud of myself. *Patting myself*
Actually, This entry is a special post to each & every single one of my silent blog readers. Despite me not being active, I was pleasantly surprise when I came to know just now  that the number of my readers last month alone was 111. I know it is NOT a big deal at all. Famous bloggers have that numbers of viewers in merely 5 minutes. But it is something to me. It means ALOT. I totally appreciate it that people from various regions of the universe namely the USA, Netherlands, Dubai, Australia, HongKong, Canada, Bahrain [this must be my sister-in-law, Kak Ain, kan??! ;)], Mexico, and not forgetting our neighbour, Malaysia and my homeland, Singapore (iBelieve my husband plays a BIG role in this.) Let U on a secret, Yus will without fail check his Twitter timeline every single day just to read my tweets, skipping through the rest he's following.

Side Note to Yus : Might as well U unfollow the rest, HoneyB. Anyways, thanks, darling, for urging me to blog again. *iLoveU*

Back to the topic of my readership, Thank YOU from the bottom of my heart, for your dedication. Doesnt matter if you happened to chanced upon my blog or have been checking my site every other day just to check if I have added in any latest entry. You made my day. I feel contented enough knowing that someone out there is interested about my life or my opinion on how I feel about certain issues. It might be crappy, but still, you guys tolerated that, and gave me another reason why I should not stop blogging or rather bullshitting. ;p

To be honest, numbers is not an issue. Who am I to have thousands of people liking or even hating my piece, ey? Even if I do have only 1 follower, I am already BEAMING. :'D But, honestly, Im touched.

XieXie ni...
Terima Kasih...
Nandri...
Dank Je Wel...
Shukran...
M goi saa...
Gra'cias...

Before I end my second post for the day...

iAm BACK & U'LL BE HEARING MORE OF ME!!!

iHave a whole load of things to share!!! I can't wait for my next post, myself. :))

iPwomise it will be soon!!!

Im loving e Loves & Lusts...
Kisses
-R-

`you'll never fade... won't you? U know U WANT me...
Last moment...
4:55 AM


♥ Sunday, May 8, 2011
Dear Mak,

When I was growing up, I thought I had the whole world in my palms.
I rebelled against You, lied to You, hurt You, & made You cry.

We argued.

iHave disappointed You so many times.
iHave said things to You just out of anger.

Sorry for the nights that I worried You & stayed out later than the time You asked me to be home.

Sorry for the screaming at You & telling You I hate You when I couldn't get my ways.

Mak, I'm sorry for making it so hard for You, but, I am so thankful for You.

For your patience, unconditional love, & guidance.
For your never ending lectures,
For those nigths You waited up for me because You worried.

Now that I'm older, I understand You completely.

And THANK YOU, Mak, for always believing in me, 
For teaching me right from wrong,
For your undying support & love that only a mother can give & do.

One day, I can only hope to be half as a super mom as You are to me.
YOU always put us before Every & ANYthing.

YOU deserve EVERYTHING & MORE!

I know iDon't tell You enough that iLove You. But iDo!
iHope You know that I love You with all my heart.
iDon't know what iWould do without You.


Happy Mothers' Day, Mak.



I LOVE YOU.

Love,
Your FirstBorn Daughter,
Nur
<3


`you'll never fade... won't you? U know U WANT me...
Last moment...
11:07 PM